There
is a catch-22 I run
into doing mental health advocacy
as
myself,
similar
to
the one I run
into doing autistic advocacy.
It
is a catch-22 similar
to
how people will tell autistic self-advocates: you're
not autistic enough, you're
too “high functioning,” you
don't understand
my
[child,
relative]'s
struggles.
In
a similar
vein:
I'm told I don't seem “mentally
ill
enough.” People have told me, “Well, I don't think of
you
as mentally
ill.”
Is it because the cyclical
manifestations began later?
Is
it because they'd
be embarrassed
to know me otherwise?
Or:
I
have a job. I look, day to day, slightly presentable – on
occasion, even fully
presentable.
I am not homeless. I have never been homeless. I have never been
involuntarily hospitalized.
So,
people will tell me I'm not mentally ill enough... and then the
people who have had all those things happen, been homeless and involuntarily
hospitalized and jobless... will be told they don't know what's best
for them. Will
be told, because of the mindset that people with serious
mental illness have no capacity,
they
have
no right
to self-directed
services
and treatment.
That
the best place for
them
is the hospital and
in treatment
and being told what their
treatment
is.
That
HR
2646,
“The
Helping Families in Mental Health Crisis
Act,”
will do everyone
good, especially
for
the
desperate
families watching their
loved
ones' mental
illness. It
won't.
That the Treatment
Advocacy
Center,
advocating
for
more
hospital beds instead of jail when neither
more
hospitalization or
jails
are
the solution for
people
with people with mental illness, and NAMI, a parent-based
advocacy
org
that supports
HR
2646,
are
helping everyone
with mental illness. They
are
some of the most prominent
voices in mental health discussions, and they
do
not center
us
in their
advocacy.
Instead
of playing
into it and trying
to describe
how seriously
my
mental
illnesses
impact
me, talking
about what
the medication has done to me,
talking
about symptoms
and things I've done, talking
about my
hospitalization more
in this – trying
to justify
over
and
over
again
why
I
deserve
to talk about it – I will keep talking about mental
health care
being broken
and people's right
to self-directed
services,
no matter
how
incapable society
thinks
they
are.
Excellent table-flip. Thank you for teaching me a better way to advocate.
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